55 tips for dealing with relationships
The first step is to understand the meaning of life and why the whole life is going all out.
Because you have to stand up to your conscience.
If you want to become a master of interpersonal relationships, the first step must be to confirm your changes; if you can even figure this out, it will be difficult to see the meaning of life, let alone a sense of accomplishment.
The second move merges the five major achievements to the end, knowing the other, Zhiye; knowing yourself, Dazhi too.
The third trick is to understand what expertise and resources I have. It is what others urgently need to be born to be useful.
Whether your expertise comes from professional training or can be explored, it can be transformed into a strong “kinetics of interpersonal relations”. Don’t be vain.
In the 4th day when you would bid farewell to the Lone Ranger, you still want to compete for the first place like a primary school student?
Don’t be stupid, this world only has team results, no personal results, so there is no so-called “first place”.
Say goodbye to the career of the Lone Ranger, your life has turned black and white back to color, and set off.
The fifth trick is to build self-confidence for yourself. Everyone has the ability to change the world. Naturally, you are no exception.
Attend more activities, help others, and help yourself.
The 6th stroke is to set short-term and long-term goals. Is it useful to regularly review and modify the work plan?
Yes, at least one person can develop the heat for three minutes.
Setting goals can either urge yourself or let others know what you need.
As long as you are diligent in communicating with others, your friends will naturally know what difficulties you have. The robe will help you realize your dreams as soon as possible through the large network of interpersonal relationships.
The seventh stroke draws a “network diagram” of interpersonal relationships, which clearly shows that the relative and tentacles of this resource are deep. The characteristics of the interpersonal network are: each member is the boss.
If you can keep the latest version of the relationship diagram, it is not difficult to find out how to use yourself as the protagonist at this moment to make good use of your relationship resources.
The eighth trick is to introduce yourself in a rather professional way. In many cases, the external image you display is far more important than your true ability.
The ninth trick is to introduce yourself in a concise and ingenious way. Whether it is a social occasion, the first lesson to expand interpersonal relationships is to learn to introduce yourself.
Be surprisingly successful.
Let the other person remember you firmly, and remember the positive image.
The tenth trick to open the conversation box technically. Why do we often miss many opportunities for networking?
It’s because we often arrange those golds to rack our brains, but still can’t squeeze out a proper opening sentence.
Whether active or passive to open the voicemail can be handy.
Once you can reach this realm, no matter where you are thrown on any occasion, you will be able to quickly enter the situation, expand your popularity as you want, and create another excellent development opportunity for yourself in life and career.
When the eleventh move is necessary, take the initiative to introduce yourself again. If someone comes to say hello to you, this must be a big man.
Practice a little bit more, “respect and dignity,” and often take the time to introduce yourself. Your interpersonal channels will become wider and smoother.
The twelfth trick to see them clearly, keep in mind that their big names actually don’t care how much you know about them, but they care if you listen carefully.
The thirteenth trick is good at being a competent host in social situations. As long as there are humans on the planet, there is no worry that there is no opportunity to express your goodwill.
The 14th trick is happy to stand up and make a name for yourself. You don’t have to do anything to make yourself famous; on the contrary, it helps to realize your idea as soon as possible.
Recommend yourself moderately so that people will know when they can ask you for help or ask for advice, so that your hero will be useless.
The fifteenth recruitment to deal with anyone, always treat it with courtesy. Even if life is short, it is more than enough to use as a ritual.
If you want to win an unexpected victory, turn over to be the master, and you don’t have to go near and far, just practice your lines before you say it.
The 16th business card must be a well-designed work. The function of the business card is to make others think of you.
This card is an important clue when others want to use personal relationships to rescue soldiers, so don’t be hasty in design.
The 17th trick is to carry a large number of business cards with you anytime and anywhere. Before going to battle, check whether you are “fully armed”.
The eighteenth trick is to hand in a business card when the situation is appropriate. After you acknowledge that you have something to say to the other party, you should respectfully present the business card when the time is right, and mutually agree on the way to contact and cooperate in the future.The interpersonal relationships that can be built can stand the test.
The 19th trick records the date and related items on each received business card. It is necessary to organize and check in the future. When others do not know that you do not care about them, it is naturally impossible to care about you. The 20th trick is not to express gratitude. Successful people have a characteristic of always being grateful.
Treat all your friends who have supported you with gratitude, and take the initiative to express your sincere gratitude. Slowly, you will find that not only your own interpersonal relationships become more sound, but others will also take you as the target of emulation.
Regardless of knowing or not knowing the 21st trick, as long as it can inspire or inspire you, you should sincerely thank them for replacing jealousy with praise. It really takes a lot of courage.
When you get someone else ‘s award for presenting an absolutely wonderful idea, what is your inner feeling, compare your heart to your heart, whether it is a friend who knows or does not know, as long as you can provide clear words or words and deeds, you should not forget to show your faceSay thank you to them with a smile.
After getting into this habit, it is not your career future, and even your outlook on life will be rewritten.
The 22nd trick is to express gratitude to the other party by calling, sending a small card, and sending a small gift in a timely manner. As long as you are open to praise others, you will be the biggest winner.
To irrigate a tree requires sufficient sunlight, moisture and nutrients, and growing your tree. The evergreen tree depends on your continuous care. Take care of the tree by calling and sending cards, gifts, etc.
But don’t let it die from malnutrition.
The 23rd trick should have its own dedicated letter, and the card and the note paper are hand-written serially more intimate and give people different feelings.
Want to build your own golden signboard?
Want to build a good professional image?
Make a small investment and print some special stationery paper. When you send it to customers, colleagues or friends, you will feel more decent.
The twenty-fourth stroke readily accepts the gratitude and assistance of others. From a person’s willingness to accept the gratitude of others, you can see its ability in interpersonal relationships.
The 25th trick to build a systematic and useful network of relationships will be more effective in improving your operational efficiency in interpersonal relationships.
Why do some people get twice the result with half the effort?
It is because there is no way to do things.
There is no outdated information on the 26th business card. If you do not have time to record new information every day, you must log in at least once a week to ensure the correctness and replacement of the information.
The 27th trick is to build an effective time management system.
We can’t ask for time suspend to match our pace, we can only catch up correctly . if you can control time, you can control everything.
As a reminder, as long as you are willing to follow the worksheet you set up, others will not dare to grab you at will.
Once the time resources can be completely in your hands, then the country is more than enough.
The 28th trick is to check the work schedule of the day in detail every day. How do I know if you are getting closer to the road to success or are you spinning around?
. the best way is to “checkout” once a day to see how well the work schedule is consolidated.
Checkout once a day, your psychological burden will not be so heavy, even if this is a huge project, you can feel a solid step forward.
Twenty-ninth move today. Actually, time is nothing to manage today, because it is 24 hours a day. What you should worry about is how to balance the hundreds of plans to eat this big pie.
Never follow the example of “Slow Lang” to “finance debt with debt”, otherwise you will not be able to work overtime until midnight.
Don’t repeat your notepad. Don’t drag it if you can solve it on the spot. Invisibly, your work efficiency will naturally increase.
The 30th trick must reply to all calls within 24 hours. If your business philosophy is “can be dragged to tomorrow, you don’t have to rush to do it today”, I am afraid it will be difficult for you to survive.
Forming a habit of replying to all calls within 24 hours can ensure the smooth flow of information on your network.
The 31st move Before picking up the microphone, think about what you need to talk about later. There are four steps to success: Be careful and act, be prepared, move forward, and follow through.
Trick 32 rejects useless social entertainment. If you waste time now, time will waste you in the future.
The 33rd move should be properly planned before participating in social activities, as long as everything can be prepared, even if the ancestors did not have virtue, they can still fly to Huang Tengda.
The 34th move actively seeks the support of others. You are in a harmonious society in which all things coexist, so it is not feasible to fight alone.
Most people are helpful, so just give them a chance to perform as long as you realize they won’t help you.
When opening the 35th move, you should state the requirements clearly and clearly, and it is not appropriate to show an aggressive posture. How is the network connected?
Very simple, when one is willing to fight.
At another willingness to endure, this marriage was formed.
The 36th trick, as long as you catch the opportunity, don’t forget to come up with the phrase: “Yes, who is the one you know .” If you ask, give it to you.
The next time you run into a wall, it doesn’t prevent you from re-checking if there is room for improvement in your speaking skills.
In fact, most people are helpful and don’t rashly close the door of opportunity. The thirty-seventh move is to know what others are suggesting, do what you know, or wait for three minutes, and everything will return to the original point.
It’s no use just saying no practice.
The 38th trick Every time I talk to a friend, I can have a person who understands the benefits and can push the boat smoothly. It may be difficult to think of it.
The 39th stroke actively participates in various civil society. By integrating into this big family, you have not only created your own business, but also fulfilled the dreams of many companions, and you have countless merits.
When a group of people gather together for the same purpose, interpersonal relationships sprout.
The 40th recruit to hold a position within the community. Once you are promoted to a cadre, it symbolizes that you are a prestigious senior, not a mediocre senior who just wants to come and divide up resources.
The 41st recruit is to use the network to deal with other people’s entrusted affairs. The most praised person in the circle is that all are winners, because the fruits of victory belong to everyone.
If you want a friend to help you when you are down, the best way to deal with it is to invest more.
The 42nd stroke has a deity, how can one cultivate self-confidence?
It’s very simple, just pick the things you don’t do . as long as you can break through your own defense, take a bold attack, and support it hard, then you will definitely feel like eating sugar cane and getting better.
The 43rd trick often evaluates your network of relationships, and expanding and expanding your network of relationships requires perseverance, not something that can be done once and for all.
The 44th trick is to trust your intuition to listen to the cry of your heart, and you will get all the answers.
Unless you think you are numb, there is no reason to ignore this voice from the heart; let it happen to you, and you can grasp the situation as soon as possible and understand all the wind and grass around you.
The 45th stroke For every ally on the relationship network, we will give them all their efforts to help them step by step to maintain the relationship network requires sincerity and patience.
You should cultivate your strength by bringing in your allies, build a building on this solid foundation, and then create a “win-win” situation, which is only a matter of time.
The 46th stroke provides friends with first-class service. Even if you are not in the service industry, there are still many opportunities to serve others.
You must first set up your own golden signboard. People in the interpersonal circle know that you are a reliable person. In this way, they will be happy to make this investment because they know you will give more in the future.
The 47th stroke likes to listen to the voices of friends. Normal hearing does not mean that you know how to listen.
The art of listening is: patiently listen to others, and don’t listen wrong!
The 48th trick is to have noble discipline and professional culture, and the consequences are endless.
Interpersonal relationships do work, but don’t abuse them.
As long as you are dealing with people, you can show a noble manners and professional cultivation, then even your deadly opponent will be convinced by you and respected.
The 49th move uses an open mind to face every opportunity of “association”. The difference between a great man and a mortal is that the former can respect everyone, including homeless people who have had bad meals.
In the 50th move, a huge “information network” that can leak water can create the benevolence of others, and it will inevitably go down in history.
When you become a clinking character, this means that you have more resources to invite others to share, so the “virtual cycle” continues.
It is not good!
The 51st trick uses the network to build yourself, to benefit others, to make a career, and to change your life. If you need a ladder between your public and private areas of life, it is your network.
The 52nd move always uses the network of interpersonal relationships as a weapon. It will become distorted. If everyone can use the relationship as a living habit, the face of the world will be completely changed.
The 53rd move aims to be a model student of strong interpersonal relationships. A master of interpersonal relationships will never take the accumulation of resources as an ability, but from time to time actively invite others to share and encourage them to do the same.
The 54th move uses an interpersonal network to sweep the world out of the world. The interpersonal network in this world is amazing. Almost everyone has an umbilical cord to connect them.
The 55th trick integrates interpersonal relationships into an indispensable part of life. You are in a harmonious society in which all things coexist, so it is not feasible to go it alone.